Untitled [on purpose]

I’ve been reading lately. There’s no plot, no way to imagine what the setting is, heck, the characters aren’t even very clear. But this person has written about some themes and feelings and deep reflection. She’s written about love, lust, hate, friendship. Finding lovers, work, new homes and adventures. She’s described the smell of her […]

A declaration to my past someones. A tribute to my lost loves.

A few years back, my heart was shattered. It was the second longer term relationship I had after my separation of 21 years. I think heartache is one of those things you experience in the moment where seconds feel like hours and there may be times where you feel as though you’ll never have enough […]

Living out loud – my weekend and the 7 Notes on Life

I don’t want this being another retrospective look on how different and difficult life has been since March 2020. We all know it has. But what I do want this to be is how the last two years has impacted our identity and how, as we all take our masks off to breathe again, we […]

Fat Chicks Deserve This Too

I have started six blog posts in the last eight weeks. The titles range from “Fear is the Biggest Boner Killer” to “Gonna Get Good”. The sentiments of these posts have included the spectrum of emotions and feelings from defeat to hope. I have listened to podcasts, watched numerous Ted Talks, sprinkled my evenings alone […]